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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


Why many relationships are not forever - and that's ok.
In my moments of ultimate sadness the story often leads back to the headline: “No one has ever chosen me”. It punches right to my solar...

HeardinLondon
Aug 14, 2024


This is a portrait of Karina
I met this brilliant human on a course I was doing. She slid into my DMs and said something along the lines of "I see you've printed...

HeardinLondon
Aug 13, 2024


Don’t leave those big, scary uncertainty questions unanswered
Uncertainty sucks. Yet life is full of it. So, what do we do with those big questions? I’m talking the kind of “What if I am not good eno

HeardinLondon
Aug 11, 2024


Who am I talking about?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 89 It's one of the things I hear a lot when people tell me of a difficulty that they're trying to...

HeardinLondon
Aug 9, 2024


Why We Expect to Be Fixed (and how coaching can help)
I know it's not fashionable for a coach to say, but I don't think you are broken. But I do think it's worth looking into. Why so many of...

HeardinLondon
Aug 4, 2024


The Not Good Enough Noise
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 88 Something I hear a lot when I talk about www.SelfCareSchool.co.uk when I talk about what I do...

HeardinLondon
Aug 2, 2024


You don’t have too many feelings, you have too much resistance
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 87 Quite often when I'm talking to people about feeling their emotions, I have conversations with...

HeardinLondon
Jul 26, 2024


This is a portrait of Janey
I have been thinking a lot about friends during this period of transition and this is a Janey appreciation post. I have always been...

HeardinLondon
Jul 23, 2024


What makes you happy (is it apple crumble)?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 86 What do you think makes you happy? If someone asks you what happiness is for you. You might say...

HeardinLondon
Jul 19, 2024


This is a portrait of Hil
I love being asked to mark major life changes. Amongst many other things, this shoot was to celebrate the publication of Hil's book....

HeardinLondon
Jul 17, 2024


This is a portrait of Georgia
I love taking photographic portraits in the wilds as it feels like you capture the essence of who someone is. Georgia messaged me after...

HeardinLondon
Jul 16, 2024


This is a portrait of Denise
I've had the pleasure of taking a few photoshoots with Denise and this was a time to invite them to bring their guitar and be themselves....

HeardinLondon
Jul 14, 2024


Do you need to be busy to avoid burnout?
We all have these well-known numbing out techniques which we know are bad for us, like drinking and smoking and doom-scrolling, but I think

HeardinLondon
Jul 14, 2024


Intellectualising Your Emotions
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 85 Where do you try and intellectualise your emotions so that you don't have to feel them? I think...

HeardinLondon
Jul 12, 2024


Using Nature as Guide
I'm trying to pay more attention. To the seasons. To nature. To myself. Nature always teaches me. It guides me home to myself whenever I...

HeardinLondon
Jul 5, 2024


You Can’t Bully Yourself Better
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 84 A problem that I've noticed for lots of people is that when we have an emotion that we don't...

HeardinLondon
Jul 5, 2024


For the “I’m not good enough” people
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 83 This podcast is for those bleaker days when it feels like everything's falling apart and you're...

HeardinLondon
Jun 28, 2024


Perfectionism says: "Be the best"
Apart from when you’re not - perfectionism is not going to be on your side
There is such hype around trying to rise above the crowd that

HeardinLondon
Jun 23, 2024


I would never speak to someone else like that
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 82 How often have you heard someone say, I'd never say that to somebody else, or I'd never speak...

HeardinLondon
Jun 21, 2024


Face Filters are Trolling Yourself
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 81 I want to talk a little bit about face filters and Instagram and all of the AI technology that we...

HeardinLondon
Jun 14, 2024
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