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Five years of COVID
It's long COVID awareness day and over five years since a virus infected my body. Here are some things I have learnt:

HeardinLondon
Mar 15, 2025


I would never speak to someone else like that
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 120 A really common phrase that I hear from people is "I wouldn't speak to anybody else the way that...

HeardinLondon
Mar 14, 2025


Who Do You Want to be in a Relationship?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 119 One of the most common life lessons that I need to learn again and again and again, I seem to...

HeardinLondon
Mar 7, 2025


Transactional Friendships and Unconventional Love
What people need to do to be lovable? What do other people need to fulfil for you to make you love them?

HeardinLondon
Feb 28, 2025


Why you don't love yourself
You think it would be easy to love ourselves, right? We've all been trying for so long. And if you're around these parts? I'm going...

HeardinLondon
Feb 23, 2025


Am I fatphobic?
how many times in a group photograph you hide behind somebody else because in your own words, "you're feeling 'a bit fat'". How many times

HeardinLondon
Feb 21, 2025


Relationships are not a thing
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 116 Relationships are not a thing. When I say they're not a thing, it doesn't mean that I don't...

HeardinLondon
Feb 14, 2025


The Greatest Love Story of My Life
Finding body peace allowed me space to love others more… 10 years, 11 months and 17 days ago I know exactly where / was. It was the day I...

HeardinLondon
Feb 14, 2025


Things you need to throw away
Moving house last year was tough. I own too much stuff. And I've treated the task of sifting through the collections of my Mum and my...

HeardinLondon
Feb 9, 2025


What If I Regret It?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 115 Often we can make decisions in this fast-paced modern world that all hang on the thought of...

HeardinLondon
Feb 7, 2025


Everyone else has it sorted
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 113 It can be really easy to compare ourselves to other people, can't it? Even though we know...

HeardinLondon
Jan 31, 2025


Why I'm choosing a year of indulgence for 2025
I want this coming year to be a year of ease.
I want to delete an indulgence.
I want to surround myself with enchantment.

HeardinLondon
Jan 26, 2025


How to Stop The Overwhelm Spiral
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 113 Overwhelm is not a thing. And what I mean by that is, it's not a puddle that you can step...

HeardinLondon
Jan 24, 2025


The tools I used in 2024
2024 was a really tough year for me I could not have done it alone. Here are some ways I reached into my toolkit this year for survival....

HeardinLondon
Jan 21, 2025


This blog could change your whole life.
How to create joyful change, without burning the whole thing down. Indeed, this blog could change your whole life, and I'm not sure...

HeardinLondon
Jan 17, 2025


How to be Less Judgemental
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 105 One of the things that we hear quite a lot in popular pop psychology these days is to tell...

HeardinLondon
Jan 17, 2025


It doesn't get better
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 112 I've been thinking a lot lately about how many people I hear talking about how things have been...

HeardinLondon
Jan 17, 2025


How to Focus on Your Goals
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 111 I wanted to give you a very breezy three-step plan to focus on your goals. Now, this is for...

HeardinLondon
Jan 10, 2025


What are the Long-Term Benefits of Confidence Coaching?
— Sometimes it is hard to even remember all the mean things I used to say to myself as easy as breathing. “I am just not the kind of...

HeardinLondon
Jan 5, 2025


Desire, desirability and socialisation
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 110 As a photographer and as a coach, I spend quite a lot of time talking to people about...

HeardinLondon
Jan 3, 2025
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