When we're on our own personal journey of growth and transforming ourselves from endless people pleasers, we can sometimes find that other people are not quite as on board with our healing and personal generosity as we might like them to be. And sometimes it's going to hit a little bit hard. And this episode is about navigating your relationship with other people whilst prioritising your own personal growth and your own personal choices.

Most of us think about the idea of certainty as this idea that when we have a whole load of things in front of us or we have a really big decision that we need to make, we're going to know what the right thing to do is because it's going to feel right. And that is us putting the idea of our feeling of certainty or our feeling of confidence to be on an external circumstance, which is us making the right decision, and that decision making us feel good.

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 145 Most of us have narratives about our bodies that we've been telling ourselves for our whole...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 143 There's a sly little sneaky thought that I think most of us fall into the trap of, even if it...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 143 One of the things that I noticed when I started getting into thoughtwork was I was worried to...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 142 One of those sound bites that I think we all hear quite often is "just be kind to yourself. Just...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 141 A little question to ponder on this week. How different would your life be if you were not...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 140 This one's for the people pleasers, the people who think that giving it all away secretly makes...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 138 I've been thinking a lot about doing things for other people, and how often so many of us do...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 137 What happens when you think that you need someone else to give you something? Primarily, what...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 136 This week I wanted to talk a little bit about why affirmations don't work and teach you...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 135 This week's podcast is a really simple little hack as to work out what's going on with you....

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 134 How many times have you been worried about saying no because you're worried about what other...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 133 This week's podcast is a little reminder of something that I'm sure you know, but I bet you've...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 132 I wanted to speak a little bit this week about the painful situation that most of us have...

I don't know many people who enjoy being angry. And yet it's a perfectly human emotion that most of us feel at some point or other. And...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 130 So this week we're going personal. For anyone who's been around these parts for a while, you'll...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 129 One of the hardest things about starting something new is the idea that it's all going to go...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 128 Many of us want to know how to succeed, and many of us think that the way to succeed is to avoid...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 126 So I'm recording this the week that the election has just happened in America. And by the time...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 126 When I'm coaching people about what they want to do with their lives and how they're spending...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 124 Every week on this podcast, I try and give you little tips and tricks to help you examine some...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 123 Stop for a minute. I just want you to check in where you are trying to do more things so that...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 122 I think most of us, probably since the beginning of the pandemic, feel a bit burnt out by the...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 127 This one's for the procrastinators. If you consider yourself to be someone who really waits...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 121 This week I'm going to be talking about that phrase I think quite a lot of us use when we're...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 120 A really common phrase that I hear from people is "I wouldn't speak to anybody else the way that...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 119 One of the most common life lessons that I need to learn again and again and again, I seem to...

What people need to do to be lovable? What do other people need to fulfil for you to make you love them?

how many times in a group photograph you hide behind somebody else because in your own words, "you're feeling 'a bit fat'". How many times

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 116 Relationships are not a thing. When I say they're not a thing, it doesn't mean that I don't...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 115 Often we can make decisions in this fast-paced modern world that all hang on the thought of...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 113 It can be really easy to compare ourselves to other people, can't it? Even though we know...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 113 Overwhelm is not a thing. And what I mean by that is, it's not a puddle that you can step...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 105 One of the things that we hear quite a lot in popular pop psychology these days is to tell...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 112 I've been thinking a lot lately about how many people I hear talking about how things have been...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 111 I wanted to give you a very breezy three-step plan to focus on your goals. Now, this is for...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 110 As a photographer and as a coach, I spend quite a lot of time talking to people about...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 Sometimes when you do this work, even when you're trained in this work, there are moments where...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 A friend of mine died yesterday morning, and I've been facing a lot of changes in my personal...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 107 Something that I hear quite a lot in coaching circles. And the way that I was trained in this...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 106 When I first started coaching, one of the first bits of information that broke my brain that I...

Spam Filter For Your Brain- Episode 102 I'm not a fan of the phrase guilty pleasures, and you might be unsurprised to learn that, or it...

When I get lost in other people's stories, I try to control how other people interact with me rather than how I respond to them. As soon as I can get back into that place of working out how I respond to them, I can feel like I have some direction over my own life, my own responses, and my own story.

How to rest when you need to get the work done and you need to pay the bills and the stuff needs to happen still. Or maybe I should flip that round. How do you actually get your work done when your body is telling you no?

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 97 This week I wanted to talk a little bit about comparison. Every so often on a coaching call, I...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 96 This week I wanted to talk about that fun issue of dealing with other people's emotions. When...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 94 I want to invite you to get really suspicious of anyone who tells you that they've got the...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 93 I wanted to pose a question about where self-sabotage might be exhausting you. You might think...

Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 92 This is something that I find myself telling people on coaching calls and in...