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Shall we do it all again?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 A friend of mine died yesterday morning, and I've been facing a lot of changes in my personal...

HeardinLondon
Dec 20, 2024


I don't want to feel this way
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 107 Something that I hear quite a lot in coaching circles. And the way that I was trained in this...

HeardinLondon
Dec 13, 2024


They shouldn’t be doing that (and how to get your power back)
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 106 When I first started coaching, one of the first bits of information that broke my brain that I...

HeardinLondon
Dec 6, 2024


Guilty Pleasures
Spam Filter For Your Brain- Episode 102 I'm not a fan of the phrase guilty pleasures, and you might be unsurprised to learn that, or it...

HeardinLondon
Nov 8, 2024


Conflict Resolution and Radical Curiosity
When I get lost in other people's stories, I try to control how other people interact with me rather than how I respond to them. As soon as I can get back into that place of working out how I respond to them, I can feel like I have some direction over my own life, my own responses, and my own story.

HeardinLondon
Nov 1, 2024


How to Work When You Need to Rest
How to rest when you need to get the work done and you need to pay the bills and the stuff needs to happen still. Or maybe I should flip that round. How do you actually get your work done when your body is telling you no?

HeardinLondon
Oct 18, 2024


I Can’t Stop Comparing Myself to Other People
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 97 This week I wanted to talk a little bit about comparison. Every so often on a coaching call, I...

HeardinLondon
Oct 3, 2024


Managing Other People's Emotions
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 96 This week I wanted to talk about that fun issue of dealing with other people's emotions. When...

HeardinLondon
Sep 27, 2024


Don’t trust me (trust Tony Benn)
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 94 I want to invite you to get really suspicious of anyone who tells you that they've got the...

HeardinLondon
Sep 13, 2024


Is Self Sabotage Exhausting You?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 93 I wanted to pose a question about where self-sabotage might be exhausting you. You might think...

HeardinLondon
Sep 6, 2024


Why Am I So Frightened All the Time?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 92 This is something that I find myself telling people on coaching calls and in...

HeardinLondon
Aug 30, 2024


Where am I already an example of what’s possible?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 91 When I was doing my coaching training, the person who devised all the courses and curriculum used...

HeardinLondon
Aug 23, 2024


Someone hurt me
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 90 Something that I hear quite a lot from people, is the phrase, "They really hurt me." or "They did...

HeardinLondon
Aug 16, 2024


Who am I talking about?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 89 It's one of the things I hear a lot when people tell me of a difficulty that they're trying to...

HeardinLondon
Aug 9, 2024


The Not Good Enough Noise
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 88 Something I hear a lot when I talk about www.SelfCareSchool.co.uk when I talk about what I do...

HeardinLondon
Aug 2, 2024


You don’t have too many feelings, you have too much resistance
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 87 Quite often when I'm talking to people about feeling their emotions, I have conversations with...

HeardinLondon
Jul 26, 2024


Intellectualising Your Emotions
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 85 Where do you try and intellectualise your emotions so that you don't have to feel them? I think...

HeardinLondon
Jul 12, 2024


You Can’t Bully Yourself Better
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 84 A problem that I've noticed for lots of people is that when we have an emotion that we don't...

HeardinLondon
Jul 5, 2024


For the “I’m not good enough” people
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 83 This podcast is for those bleaker days when it feels like everything's falling apart and you're...

HeardinLondon
Jun 28, 2024


I would never speak to someone else like that
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 82 How often have you heard someone say, I'd never say that to somebody else, or I'd never speak...

HeardinLondon
Jun 21, 2024
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