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Desire, desirability and socialisation
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 110 As a photographer and as a coach, I spend quite a lot of time talking to people about...

HeardinLondon
Jan 3


2024
In many, many ways, 2024 has been one of the hardest years of my life. And yet there has been laughter, there has been swimming, there...

HeardinLondon
Dec 27, 2024


How Deep is Your Socialisation
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 Sometimes when you do this work, even when you're trained in this work, there are moments where...

HeardinLondon
Dec 27, 2024


Shall we do it all again?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 A friend of mine died yesterday morning, and I've been facing a lot of changes in my personal...

HeardinLondon
Dec 20, 2024


Our least favourite phrases tell us a lot about ourselves…
Darling soul. I know you have all the reasons in the world you could give me about why you haven't sat down. How much we still have to do...

HeardinLondon
Dec 18, 2024


What kind of listener do you want to be? An open or closed one?
How to listen from the heart  What kind of listener do you want to be? An open or closed one? Someone who asks a question so you can...

HeardinLondon
Dec 15, 2024


How to get that inner critic to be quiet
In the most devastatingly simple way I know You know that inner critic voices which can sometimes sounds SO loud? The "You can't do it"...

HeardinLondon
Dec 13, 2024


This is a Pity Party
Back at the end of the summer I invited people to come to the beach and bring something they wanted to let go. We had the incredible...

HeardinLondon
Dec 13, 2024


I don't want to feel this way
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 107 Something that I hear quite a lot in coaching circles. And the way that I was trained in this...

HeardinLondon
Dec 13, 2024


What people pleasers won’t tell you
How rested they are How valued they feel How much they enjoy giving  That last one may surprise you, because I think a lot of us would...

HeardinLondon
Dec 6, 2024


They shouldn’t be doing that (and how to get your power back)
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 106 When I first started coaching, one of the first bits of information that broke my brain that I...

HeardinLondon
Dec 6, 2024


Drop That Shit and Run - how to ask for help before a crisis
How I learnt to ask for help and how you can too  I'm notoriously hard to support. My friends tell me often. I used to pride myself in...

HeardinLondon
Dec 1, 2024


This is a portrait of Catherine
Towards the end of the summer, Catherine decided to come down to the seaside and combine a beach break of rest for herself with a...

HeardinLondon
Nov 24, 2024


How much to tell people
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 104 I think most of us have faced a situation where we're going through something or other and we...

HeardinLondon
Nov 22, 2024


This is a portrait of People I Love
Back in the summer of 2023, I gathered friends and family in the studio to share food, laughter and to capture the ones I love in the...

HeardinLondon
Nov 19, 2024


A fat girl's manifesto
Just because no one rescued the fat girls in the movies, that doesn't mean you can't rescue yourself. Â Pleasure and intimacy and...

HeardinLondon
Nov 17, 2024


Failure is a stepping stone
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 103 I think most of us would comfortably try and avoid failure at all costs. It's a very normal,...

HeardinLondon
Nov 15, 2024


Guilty Pleasures
Spam Filter For Your Brain- Episode 102 I'm not a fan of the phrase guilty pleasures, and you might be unsurprised to learn that, or it...

HeardinLondon
Nov 8, 2024


This is a portrait of Aviah and Mike's Wedding
Back in the summer of 2023, friends, family, activists and agitators gathered to celebrate Black love, community and consciousness. To...

HeardinLondon
Nov 7, 2024


Maybe you don't have a strong immune system. Maybe you just lucked out.
There is a really pervasive narrative I've been hearing a lot since the beginning of the pandemic: that a lot of people are very...

HeardinLondon
Nov 6, 2024
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