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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


What is it You Want? (and why we stopped asking for our own needs)
We are taught to believe that if we don't have needs and make ourselves as small and unburdensome as possible, there is a chance we can

HeardinLondon
Jul 29, 2023


When Your Heart Cannot Stop Being Tested by Big Emotions
Is there any space in there for you to be able to just anchor onto one little thought of "this is me experiencing life"

HeardinLondon
Jul 28, 2023


You Can't Hustle Your Way to Eternal Happiness (why burnout is not the prize)
It seems like only a few years ago, the word “hustle” seemed to show dedication, resilience and strength in character. But somewhere along t

HeardinLondon
Jul 27, 2023


This is Wells-Next-The-Sea
This is Wells-Next-The-Sea. A beautiful Sunday of sea, sand, seals and rainbows.
My friends are amazing.
What a road trip.

HeardinLondon
Jul 26, 2023


How to Make Space for Others
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 23rd July 2023
TLDR link page

HeardinLondon
Jul 23, 2023


What do you really want? (how to communicate your needs without undermining yourself)
Sometimes criticising ourselves can be a habit rather than a conscious choice, and I have found it is useful to create disruptors to pattern

HeardinLondon
Jul 22, 2023


How to stop chasing happiness
life is that it involves a full load of different emotions. There is fear, anger, disappointment, confusion, excitement, apathy, joy

HeardinLondon
Jul 21, 2023


Body Image and Mindfulness
We are told that we need to constantly monitor what we eat, how much we exercise, and how our bodies look. All of which often includes...

HeardinLondon
Jul 18, 2023


This is a portrait of Christine
During the photoshoot, Christine and I spoke about confidence and the importance of showing up for yourself, especially as she is finally be

HeardinLondon
Jul 18, 2023


How to Get Your Needs Met
Self Care Sundays Postcards: 16th July 2023: TLDR link page, Blogs, resources and self-care tips.

HeardinLondon
Jul 15, 2023


This is a portrait of Anoki
I met this human and we talked about the project I run, about androgyny, about the love of water and of being able to find peace.

HeardinLondon
Jul 15, 2023


What to do when you cannot decide what to do
The reason why we make things really complicated is because we think that there's a right decision and a wrong decision.

HeardinLondon
Jul 14, 2023


When it is time to say goodbye
Saying goodbye is hard. But in the words of an author who is beloved to me, Cheryl Strayed “Sometimes you need to be willing to break...

HeardinLondon
Jul 12, 2023


Deciding to care is self care
We can no longer pretend we do not know that the way we speak about our bodies does not impact others, the way we treat ourselves, and the w

HeardinLondon
Jul 8, 2023


For the ones who feel too much
We often perceive our feelings as overwhelming, too intense or loud, so much so that we expend a lot of energy trying to escape from them.

HeardinLondon
Jul 7, 2023


Solstice at Stonehenge
A magical morning for summer solstice.
The last time I touched the stones I was old enough to be plonked on one and sat whilst

HeardinLondon
Jul 5, 2023


How to Look After Yourself When You're Busy: Self-Care Tips for a Busy Lifestyle
It can be exhausting trying to take jigsaw together life, work, health, family and the cost of living, And this can be this underlying back

HeardinLondon
Jul 1, 2023


What to do when you feel overwhelmed
We've all experienced feeling overwhelmed and having a never-ending to-do list. If you don't want this to be your narrative forever, perhaps

HeardinLondon
Jun 30, 2023


How much emotional baggage are you willing to unpack?
By calling it “emotional baggage”, we immediately label the emotions as heavy, inconvenient, cumbersome, and something to be manoeuvred.

HeardinLondon
Jun 28, 2023


The discomfort of other people’s opinions
have you ever stopped to think about why you look for external validation? It's easy to fall into this trap, especially when we're feeling

HeardinLondon
Jun 23, 2023
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