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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


When Your Heart Cannot Stop Being Tested by Big Emotions
Is there any space in there for you to be able to just anchor onto one little thought of "this is me experiencing life"

HeardinLondon
Jul 28, 2023


What do you really want? (how to communicate your needs without undermining yourself)
Sometimes criticising ourselves can be a habit rather than a conscious choice, and I have found it is useful to create disruptors to pattern

HeardinLondon
Jul 22, 2023


How to stop chasing happiness
life is that it involves a full load of different emotions. There is fear, anger, disappointment, confusion, excitement, apathy, joy

HeardinLondon
Jul 21, 2023


Deciding to care is self care
We can no longer pretend we do not know that the way we speak about our bodies does not impact others, the way we treat ourselves, and the w

HeardinLondon
Jul 8, 2023


How to Look After Yourself When You're Busy: Self-Care Tips for a Busy Lifestyle
It can be exhausting trying to take jigsaw together life, work, health, family and the cost of living, And this can be this underlying back

HeardinLondon
Jul 1, 2023


How much emotional baggage are you willing to unpack?
By calling it “emotional baggage”, we immediately label the emotions as heavy, inconvenient, cumbersome, and something to be manoeuvred.

HeardinLondon
Jun 28, 2023


The Power of Mindset: Understanding the Link Between Thoughts and Emotions
the circumstances around you can change, but if you are still having the same old thoughts (hello ingrained beliefs) you’ll still feel

HeardinLondon
May 27, 2023


Why Affirmations Did Not Work for You
ne of the ways that you can find a connection to some of these words is just to find some incremental, neutral thoughts that are more in the

HeardinLondon
May 26, 2023


Self care tips for tough days
When we prioritise self-care, we give ourselves the space and time we need to recharge and refocus. This, in turn, helps us build

HeardinLondon
May 24, 2023


We don't need another quick fix cure
when we fixate on this idea of "solving" the problem that we have at the moment, we miss out on what is most of our lives because we're

HeardinLondon
May 12, 2023


Cultivate Self-Compassion and Compliments (and why imposter syndrome stops us doing both)
A common symptom of imposter syndrome is the inability to accept compliments.

HeardinLondon
May 2, 2023


Better Boundaries
Boundaries are a set of values about your life that you want. That's it. Well, this puts us in the space of trying to look at boundaries

HeardinLondon
Apr 21, 2023


People pleasing is a common habit many of us struggle with...
The motivation to put others' needs before our own is motivated by the fear of potential rejection if we don't.

HeardinLondon
Apr 20, 2023


Learning to grow more brain
the good news is that our brains can change, through a process known as neuroplasticity. It is the same way we have learnt everything, from

HeardinLondon
Apr 17, 2023


Why Your Brain Makes What Other People Do All About You
We become fixated on trying to prove our worth to ourselves and to others, and this often leads us to see the actions of our partner as a

HeardinLondon
Apr 15, 2023


But I don't have time
Is that managing your mindset and looking after your emotional health and giving yourself tools to stop yourself spiralling and things feel

HeardinLondon
Apr 14, 2023


Taking Responsibility for Your Results (and why it is so painful)
The problem is that taking responsibility for our own emotions means that we're going to need to feel some of our negative emotions.

HeardinLondon
Apr 3, 2023


Confidence, politics and lying to yourself
Being confident means being kind to ourselves, which is infuriatingly more difficult than it sounds. Especially when, logically, you know it

HeardinLondon
Apr 2, 2023


Why we don't set boundaries
The more we are able to untangle our needs from other people's reactions, the easier it becomes to get really honest with ourselves about

HeardinLondon
Apr 1, 2023


Do you believe that confidence is just something that some people have and some people* don't have?
Do you believe that confidence is just something that some people have and some people don't have? And you don't have it?

HeardinLondon
Mar 24, 2023
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