Avoidance
The problem with avoiding your negative feelings is that you avoid half of your life. Never in the history of time has there been someone w
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HeardinLondon
- May 29, 2022
How the hell did we get half way through the year?
Are you willing to spend the next six months building your goals, or are you going to wait another six months to turn them back into new yea
HeardinLondon
- May 20, 2022
Grief, loss and love
For me, it is about feeling. About choosing to feel my emotions and welcome all of the discomfort and pain & loss home, not to push it away
HeardinLondon
- May 16, 2022
Why do we set goals?
The fundamental thought error is that we are taught to select our goals from a place of scarcity. That if we reach the dream, we can be hap
HeardinLondon
- Apr 22, 2022
How to make time out of thin air
I want to share a top tip for creating more space in your diary and a top tip to take you one step further away from overwhelm.
Question why
HeardinLondon
- Apr 1, 2022
How much is a human life worth?
Make a donation, get a coaching session.
There is an old buddhist teaching that if one lights a candle for others, one also will brighten
HeardinLondon
- Mar 28, 2022
What is this coaching stuff all about?
I have had acupuncture hypnosis, tried tapping and camping. I have travelled days to visit spiritual healers...
HeardinLondon
- Mar 19, 2022
To the ones who want to opt out of Mother's Day this year
For the missing mum’s club, to the post-natal depression mums, to the miscarriage mums, to the where-did-my-chance-go mums, to the frightene
HeardinLondon
- Mar 4, 2022
Is zoom breaking your brain?
I am sure a lot of is due to old coping mechanisms being freshly presented as defence techniques, and there are a lot of anxieties about go
HeardinLondon
- Feb 27, 2022
Asking for a bursary is a practise in receiving
I believe that a toxic mix of capitalism, patriarchy and ablism mean than people have been convinced that taking up their space denies a spa
HeardinLondon
- Feb 21, 2022
What do boundaries mean to you?
But what if your boundaries were about your story and the life you chose, rather than what other people did to you? What if you were able to
HeardinLondon
- Jan 27, 2022
Why people do not apply for bursaries
I’ve had my fair share.
I shouldn’t take more than I already have.
I think someone else deserves it more.
Any of that sound familiar?
HeardinLondon
- Jan 21, 2022
You cannot guilt trip your way to happiness
Somewhere along the line we convinced ourselves, that if we act like the school bully, we are going to be motivated. I have no idea where w
HeardinLondon
- Jan 15, 2022
New year feels like a long time ago, right?
I am not thinking about what you have done, I am thinking about what you achieved in order to get there. I am thinking about how you spoke
HeardinLondon
- Jan 10, 2022
How are those new year’s resolutions going?
If you decided upon New Year’s Resolutions which you thought would enable you to feel more loved or accepted or worthy – you are setting you
HeardinLondon
- Jan 7, 2022
How to feel big emotions (and not lose your shit)
Here is one of my favourite brain hacks to use when you are feeling big emotions without trying to avoid them or wait until they build up an
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