I know I am meant to love myself, so why does everything feel so hard?
You're smart; you see how people being excluded does all an injustice. And yet… You just can't seem to apply this stuff to yourself.
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HeardinLondon
- Jan 4
Carla and Debbie
Carla came for a photoshoot with me a few months ago and at some moment I saw her looking a bit uncomfortable, and I asked her to think that
HeardinLondon
- Dec 18, 2022
Food and Festivities
The holiday season is often associated with overindulgence, whether in food, alcohol, or consumerism. For many people, this time of year can
HeardinLondon
- Oct 7, 2022
Body Confidence Picnic
Body confidence picnic. A few weeks ago I hosted a body confidence picnic, for people I have done shoots with in the past. We shared food,
HeardinLondon
- Aug 20, 2022
What cellulite and climate change have in common
safe!”) for what they are, then you can begin to imagine all sorts of other problems or causes (or drama. Often drama).
HeardinLondon
- Jul 22, 2022
What would your impact be if you felt confident as hell in your body?
What if you did not just tolerate your body, what if you thought it was incredible, magical, useful, resourceful, playful? What could be po
HeardinLondon
- Jul 15, 2022
I'm hot
What other people think of me is not my priority. And my feet are frankly not theirs, but yet still this voice pops up in a very reasonable
HeardinLondon
- Jun 17, 2022
How to get those Not-Good-Enough Gremlins to put a sock in it
Maybe it is not as often as it used to be, but every so often, you're just getting going when a little voice in your head asks you who on ea
HeardinLondon
- May 6, 2022
This is Rowan
Rowan arrived at the studio they laid out their outfits and I dived straight for this shirt and fell about fawning about how brilliant it wo
HeardinLondon
- Apr 29, 2022
This is Ambra
For Ambra, I adored the fact that they brought some off their grandmothers clothes to be able to see all of themselves.
HeardinLondon
- Mar 30, 2022
What I learnt from a thousand first dates
I was single for over a decade and I learnt a lot – mostly about myself.
But it took me a long time of repeating the same mistakes before I
HeardinLondon
- Mar 4, 2022
Is zoom breaking your brain?
I am sure a lot of is due to old coping mechanisms being freshly presented as defence techniques, and there are a lot of anxieties about go
HeardinLondon
- Jan 27, 2022
Why people do not apply for bursaries
I’ve had my fair share.
I shouldn’t take more than I already have.
I think someone else deserves it more.
Any of that sound familiar?
HeardinLondon
- Jan 24, 2022
Let's Talk About Body Image
Most of you know by now how passionate I am about trying to create inclusive spaces for people in all bodies. If you follow me on social me
HeardinLondon
- Jan 21, 2022
You cannot guilt trip your way to happiness
Somewhere along the line we convinced ourselves, that if we act like the school bully, we are going to be motivated. I have no idea where w
HeardinLondon
- Dec 15, 2021
Fat and a liability. Why is that?
I got turned down for insurance last week because I'm too fat. But mostly because we're still wildly prejudice against people in...
HeardinLondon
- Dec 3, 2021
Akeida
The clarity, courage and humanity in Akeida's eyes moved me to my core. We spoke about what brought her to want to shoot with me, we spoke a
HeardinLondon
- Nov 26, 2021
Janet
She came to her shoot with the most incredible range of fabulous dresses. When I asked her how she had come to own so many wonderful items..
HeardinLondon
- Oct 16, 2021
Tais
@taislima came in with a very clear image of where she is at in her life and what she wanted to remember about this season. 🇧🇷 She...
HeardinLondon
- Oct 7, 2021
Zsofi
Nearly everyone I shoot with thinks of themselves as uncomfortable in front of the camera. I spent a lot of time coaching people to...
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