Why many relationships are not forever - and that's ok.
In my moments of ultimate sadness the story often leads back to the headline: “No one has ever chosen me”. It punches right to my solar...
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HeardinLondon
- Aug 11
Don’t leave those big, scary uncertainty questions unanswered
Uncertainty sucks. Yet life is full of it. So, what do we do with those big questions? I’m talking the kind of “What if I am not good eno
HeardinLondon
- Aug 4
Why We Expect to Be Fixed (and how coaching can help)
I know it's not fashionable for a coach to say, but I don't think you are broken. But I do think it's worth looking into. Why so many of...
HeardinLondon
- Jul 14
Do you need to be busy to avoid burnout?
We all have these well-known numbing out techniques which we know are bad for us, like drinking and smoking and doom-scrolling, but I think
HeardinLondon
- Jul 5
Using Nature as Guide
I'm trying to pay more attention. To the seasons. To nature. To myself. Nature always teaches me. It guides me home to myself whenever I...
HeardinLondon
- Jun 23
Perfectionism says: "Be the best"
Apart from when you’re not - perfectionism is not going to be on your side
There is such hype around trying to rise above the crowd that
HeardinLondon
- May 31
Why photoshoots are important for personal empowerment
And how we can use photoshoots to reclaim our body image. As an empowerment photographer, I understand the fears and insecurities which...
HeardinLondon
- May 19
3 Phases of Self-Development
In self-development there are quick wins, there are life transformations and there is the bit in the middle. And this is where most people g
HeardinLondon
- May 18
Nature Does Not Reject Me: How to Thrive and Carve Space for Yourself in a World Not Designed for Larger Bodies
The ocean never rejects me. It never runs away and says there is too much of me (or if it does, it returns in the next breath). It never...
HeardinLondon
- May 12
3 weird things insomnia taught me
Insomnia can be a relentless beast, but I discovered some unexpected things which helped me
HeardinLondon
- May 8
People Pleasing - The secret way to make patriarchal socialisation actually useful
People pleasing is something you were taught, and maybe that not 100% bad
HeardinLondon
- May 5
People Pleasers and Growing up English
I think the majority of people who grew up in England find people pleasing particularly difficult as we have so many unwritten rules about w
HeardinLondon
- May 5
A love letter to London
London, I have loved you. But it's time to go. I'd like to say it's a beautiful a uncoupling, but it feels more like you rejected me, and...
HeardinLondon
- Apr 21
Are you making these common thought errors?
Some of the most pervasive thought errors I have found people bring to coaching sessions also happen to be ones they believe are unique to t
HeardinLondon
- Apr 19
Creating lasting habit change
Why habit change is hard and what we can do about it. It's natural for us to want to change certain habits in our lives. Whether it's to...
HeardinLondon
- Apr 14
Emergence
Reading this may result in the uncontrollable urge to exhale and emerge as more yourself.
HeardinLondon
- Apr 11
Shifting Our Self-Care Process: Investing in ourselves as well as others
In a world which often prioritises external appearances and emphasises the value of people socialised as women is mostly based on their...
HeardinLondon
- Apr 7
Pedicures are not self care
you might LOVE a pedicure. Dream of a pedicure. Feel like you deserve a treat and that treat is selfcare.
But did you notice what just
HeardinLondon
- Mar 24
5 steps to earn your own trust
how do you earn your own trust? Well, like a lot of things in life, it is a skill we can learn and the more the we practise it, the more it
HeardinLondon
- Mar 23
Unlocking Potential: The Power of "I Am Learning To..."
The Transformative Power of "I Am Learning To..."
1. Fosters a Growth Mindset
The phrase "I am learning to..." encourages a growth mindset
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