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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


Confidence is a muscle we can build
I believe it is more helpful to think of confidence as something we build over time through a series of small victories and successes. And a

HeardinLondon
Sep 29, 2023


Waiting for other people to change
Hoping that some particular person, at any one time, will stop doing the things they're doing so my life can be easier. Or...

HeardinLondon
Sep 29, 2023


This is a portrait of Robyn
Robyn is a clown and makes a conscious effort for her work to be in harmony with the environment and also to be a defender of it.

HeardinLondon
Sep 28, 2023


The guilt-free confidence quick fix…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 24th September 2023 TLDR link page SelfCareSchool's Decisions course:...

HeardinLondon
Sep 24, 2023


How to unstuck (and avoid regret)
Our emotions are sensations in our own body which are processed by our brain, and they are ours and ours alone, and they come from the thoug

HeardinLondon
Sep 22, 2023


This is a portrait of Mica
When I asked Mica how she was, she grabbed my arm and said "Heartbroken. Let's show the world what that looks like".

HeardinLondon
Sep 21, 2023


Stand up for us: Why has it taken so long for comedians to have their #MeToo moment?
This is the end result of a society which teaches that “boys will be boys” and asks, “What was she wearing?”.

HeardinLondon
Sep 19, 2023


Are you giving yourself what you need?…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 17th September 2023 TLDR link page SelfCareSchool's Decisions course:...

HeardinLondon
Sep 17, 2023


Strengthen Your Decision-Making: Empower Yourself to Make Confident Choices
next time a scenario presents itself to you, and you feel like you are spinning in indecision, maybe try asking yourself: If I knew I had my

HeardinLondon
Sep 16, 2023


When you don't want to (how to say no with confidence)
We know that "no" should be a full and complete sentence. And yet, if we know this and we don't act on it because it's uncomfortable for us,

HeardinLondon
Sep 15, 2023


This is a portrait of Angela
Angela told me that she has been honing this look for several years now, mixing her life in London and her love of joy and connection in Lon

HeardinLondon
Sep 13, 2023


Coaching is like cleaning: you only notice what you've missed when someone else shows up
; sometimes, when we're too close to a situation, we can't see what is under our noses or areas that need attention. This is precisely like

HeardinLondon
Sep 11, 2023


Clearing out the emotional cobwebs 🕸️…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 9th September 2023 TLDR link page SelfCareSchool's Decisions course:...

HeardinLondon
Sep 10, 2023


You probably have more choices than you think you do
When we make decisions from a place of survival, we are focused on keeping our heads above water and getting through the day-to-day. We may

HeardinLondon
Sep 9, 2023


This is a portrait of Amy
I have worked on several community projects with Amy over the past couple of years and it has always been a real delight to know that she is

HeardinLondon
Sep 9, 2023


Because Happiness is not Enough
if all you had was happiness, it wouldn't feel very good because you wouldn't have anything to measure it against. You would have no idea of

HeardinLondon
Sep 8, 2023


What does people pleasing look like in your life?
the reality is that you don't have to identify as a people pleaser to still be behaving in a way which does not always have your best

HeardinLondon
Sep 3, 2023


More time and energy…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 3rd September 2023 TLDR link page SelfCareSchool's People Pleasers course:...

HeardinLondon
Sep 3, 2023


How to make decisions when you do not know the next step
find the smallest possible step that you can take, which moves you in the direction that gets you closer to your goal.

HeardinLondon
Sep 1, 2023


You know what is wrong with people pleasers?
I know when I was spending all my time people pleasing, it was never enough. I never did enough nice things. I never felt safe in being li

HeardinLondon
Aug 27, 2023
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