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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


Resourcing ourselves, so there is more to go around…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 27th August 2023 TLDR link page SelfCareSchool's People Pleasers course:...

HeardinLondon
Aug 27, 2023


Why you need to stop should-ing all over yourself - why fear and dreams don't mix
, our journey towards self-improvement is plagued by self-judgement and old nonsense about all the times we have got it wrong in the past.

HeardinLondon
Aug 26, 2023


This is a pregnancy portrait of Ana
I love pregnancy photoshoots where people are just completely comfortable in their skin and showing up as their full selves. This shoot wit

HeardinLondon
Aug 26, 2023


Hidden Consequences of People Pleasing
people pleasing that we are socialised into, which is one of the main causes of people not speaking up against oppression.

HeardinLondon
Aug 25, 2023


People-Pleasing: The Silent Guardian of Power Structures
a pervasive culture of people-pleasing, one which often silences critical voices in the face of oppression. But it's high time we consider:

HeardinLondon
Aug 23, 2023


This is a portrait of Katie
All the circus schools were shut and we were allowed outside to exercise, and she asked me to take some dancing portrait photographs of her

HeardinLondon
Aug 21, 2023


Allowing others to lean on us, without falling over…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 20th August 2023 TLDR link page Free workshop: How to support people without burning...

HeardinLondon
Aug 20, 2023


What People Pleasing is not
What people get out of my courses is the possibility that maybe we could take some of the pressure off right now so that we're not always lo

HeardinLondon
Aug 18, 2023


Why Fatphobia Is Ableist (and what is wrong with that)
When you equate thinness with morality and conflate thinness with health, the result is that people who do not fit into socially acceptable

HeardinLondon
Aug 16, 2023


How to be kind to others, without overlooking yourself…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 13th August 2023 TLDR link page Free workshop: How to support people without burning...

HeardinLondon
Aug 16, 2023


This is a portrait of Adriana
I met Adriana in Italy and they were modelled in soft and floaty fabric and I quickly got to the heart of it that she was a hip-hop chick at

HeardinLondon
Aug 14, 2023


Letting Go of Body Anxiety: Building a Life That Requires Less Coping and more Pleasure
Creating hypercritical views of yourself is a natural result of a society which constantly reminds us that our value is our attractiveness.

HeardinLondon
Aug 12, 2023


The Emotional Rollercoaster
the emotional roller coaster gets too much when all of those high-volume emotions feel like there are too many in one place at one time.

HeardinLondon
Aug 11, 2023


Disrupting AI Art
With AI with each iteration, it gets more white, more Eurocentric features, younger, thinner, more flawless skin, her clothes begin falling

HeardinLondon
Aug 9, 2023


How to Support People (without burnout)
for those of us who value empathy, who centre social justice and who have wide-open-hearted care for people - this can pose a problem.

HeardinLondon
Aug 7, 2023


Allowing others to lean on us without falling over…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 6th August 2023
TLDR link page

HeardinLondon
Aug 5, 2023


This is a portrait of Dylan
It was such an honour to do a pregnancy photoshoot with Sophie a few months ago, and we spoke about the possibility of a newborn session whe

HeardinLondon
Aug 5, 2023


Why You Can Achieve Your Goals and Still Feel Terrible
It's a common misconception that reaching our goals will automatically lead to happiness™️ and fulfilment. The truth is, accomplishing what

HeardinLondon
Aug 5, 2023


Why you need to stop being mean to yourself (why self-criticism is not the way to self-love)
Here's something I've noticed that we do that isn't all that useful, and that is to believe that our inner critic, your self-criticism, the

HeardinLondon
Aug 4, 2023


Learning about Ourselves and Others
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 30th July 2023 TLDR link page New course: ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT (without feeling...

HeardinLondon
Jul 30, 2023
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