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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


How to Make Space for Others
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 23rd July 2023
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HeardinLondon
Jul 23, 2023


What do you really want? (how to communicate your needs without undermining yourself)
Sometimes criticising ourselves can be a habit rather than a conscious choice, and I have found it is useful to create disruptors to pattern

HeardinLondon
Jul 22, 2023


How to stop chasing happiness
life is that it involves a full load of different emotions. There is fear, anger, disappointment, confusion, excitement, apathy, joy

HeardinLondon
Jul 21, 2023


Body Image and Mindfulness
We are told that we need to constantly monitor what we eat, how much we exercise, and how our bodies look. All of which often includes...

HeardinLondon
Jul 18, 2023


What to do when you cannot decide what to do
The reason why we make things really complicated is because we think that there's a right decision and a wrong decision.

HeardinLondon
Jul 14, 2023


When it is time to say goodbye
Saying goodbye is hard. But in the words of an author who is beloved to me, Cheryl Strayed “Sometimes you need to be willing to break...

HeardinLondon
Jul 12, 2023


How to Look After Yourself When You're Busy: Self-Care Tips for a Busy Lifestyle
It can be exhausting trying to take jigsaw together life, work, health, family and the cost of living, And this can be this underlying back

HeardinLondon
Jul 1, 2023


What to do when you feel overwhelmed
We've all experienced feeling overwhelmed and having a never-ending to-do list. If you don't want this to be your narrative forever, perhaps

HeardinLondon
Jun 30, 2023


How much emotional baggage are you willing to unpack?
By calling it “emotional baggage”, we immediately label the emotions as heavy, inconvenient, cumbersome, and something to be manoeuvred.

HeardinLondon
Jun 28, 2023


The discomfort of other people’s opinions
have you ever stopped to think about why you look for external validation? It's easy to fall into this trap, especially when we're feeling

HeardinLondon
Jun 23, 2023


Connection in Relationships
Connection is vital to happiness and fulfilment, it's not always that easy to connect with others, especially when we feel disconnected

HeardinLondon
Jun 19, 2023


Everything is Relationships
Very few revolutionaries have ever sat around thinking, “Well, this is all really big, so I may as well not try."

HeardinLondon
Jun 17, 2023


How inspirational memes can actually be useful
Even though these lovely inspirational quotes on our wall might be something that we can see the benefit of, if we were to believe them.

HeardinLondon
Jun 15, 2023


For the "I hate having my photograph taken" people
the truth is that underneath the words, is the thinly veiled whisper “I don't like how I look.” - which is what so many of us are taught to

HeardinLondon
Jun 15, 2023


Manipulating people for love
How many times have you caught yourself or noticed or acknowledged yourself paying for things in a restaurant you couldn't afford.

HeardinLondon
Jun 9, 2023


The Those People are Like That Drama
I wonder how much looking at big groups of people and claiming to know what they're thinking is a dopamine reward and helps us feel safe in

HeardinLondon
Jun 2, 2023


The Power of Mindset: Understanding the Link Between Thoughts and Emotions
the circumstances around you can change, but if you are still having the same old thoughts (hello ingrained beliefs) you’ll still feel

HeardinLondon
May 27, 2023


Why Affirmations Did Not Work for You
ne of the ways that you can find a connection to some of these words is just to find some incremental, neutral thoughts that are more in the

HeardinLondon
May 26, 2023


Overwhelm and Expectations
When we stack up obligations, and we know full well that we give ourselves a terrible time when we get things wrong it feels dangerous

HeardinLondon
May 25, 2023


Self care tips for tough days
When we prioritise self-care, we give ourselves the space and time we need to recharge and refocus. This, in turn, helps us build

HeardinLondon
May 24, 2023
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