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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


How to stop telling yourself you are not good enough
A good way to begin is to become aware of your self-talk. Stop and pay attention to the words which run through your mind on a daily basis.

HeardinLondon
Mar 21, 2023


This is Carmella
Melly came to the studio wanting to capture an image for freedom.
Many dance moves and giggling later, I feel like we captured the mood of

HeardinLondon
Mar 20, 2023


The fabulous pettiness of ChatGTP
For dyslexics like myself, capitalism can be a harsh and unforgiving environment in a world of constant contact and churn. There's so much

HeardinLondon
Mar 19, 2023


Confidence vs Arrogance
Confidence is a belief in your capacity and abilities, and arrogance determines your worth by thinking you're better than others. Confidence

HeardinLondon
Mar 18, 2023


What does confidence look like for you?
It's hard to build confidence for ourselves when we don't have a set definition of what that means.

HeardinLondon
Mar 17, 2023


This is Senait
Senait and I spent a lot of time talking about the importance of travelling and learning from other cultures.
It was such a joy to bring

HeardinLondon
Mar 16, 2023


What does emotional safety look like for you?
Most of life is not happy and peaceful. Most of my life is a complicated mix of feelings and often a lot of things simultaneously, and some

HeardinLondon
Mar 14, 2023


This is a Portrait of Madeline
Madeline is an extraordinary individual with an incredible ability to connect with others on a deep and meaningful level. I have always been

HeardinLondon
Mar 13, 2023


Have you been tricked or trapped?
Many of us have been socialised to make ourselves as small as possible so we're not an inconvenience. How many of us have been taught that

HeardinLondon
Mar 12, 2023


How to build confidence, one cup of tea at a time
Where do you feel you need to perform perfectionism to give you confidence?
It can feel like a tantalising lure, can’t it?

HeardinLondon
Mar 11, 2023


A line in the sand
Have you created any New Year's resolutions that you were hoping to make a start on that you hadn't gotten around to yet? Or life took over

HeardinLondon
Mar 10, 2023


Why body image is probably not your problem
It took a lot of work on my body image, confidence, and past to acknowledge that I was trying to manipulate my body to stop predators.

HeardinLondon
Mar 9, 2023


Why insults hang around longer than compliments
That's why you can have people remind you how loved you are, how brilliant you are, and how wonderful you are. Left, right and centre, but a

HeardinLondon
Mar 3, 2023


How to stop self-doubt drowning out everything else
I know that it held me back in so many ways. I felt like I didn't have anything of value to offer, and I've often avoided taking risks or pu

HeardinLondon
Mar 1, 2023


How to be a body ally
How can you make your body feel more at home? What kind of things do you think someone who does feel like their body is an ally would be say

HeardinLondon
Feb 24, 2023


This is a portrait of NicK
NicK is in the UK and currently unable to legally work and so is having to survive from busking and donations. If you would like to help

HeardinLondon
Feb 21, 2023


That person at work who just won't let you do your job and other work relationships
When people speak about their experience of this, what people talk about was their anger, the frustration and the arrogance of the other

HeardinLondon
Feb 20, 2023


Who is profiting from me feeling like this? Why comparison is a joy-thief
one of the things I found helpful when I was doing this work in regards to my body image, which is something that, as someone who's lived a

HeardinLondon
Feb 17, 2023


This is a portrait of Emma
Emma's powerful shapes and strong handstands cut brilliant silhouettes, as they combine circus with voguing and cabaret.

HeardinLondon
Feb 16, 2023


I believe that self love is key to changing the world
The work you do on yourself impacts all of your relationships, and the level of compassion or criticism we show ourselves ripples out.

HeardinLondon
Feb 12, 2023
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