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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


Taking Responsibility for Your Results (and why it is so painful)
The problem is that taking responsibility for our own emotions means that we're going to need to feel some of our negative emotions.

HeardinLondon
Apr 3, 2023


Confidence, politics and lying to yourself
Being confident means being kind to ourselves, which is infuriatingly more difficult than it sounds. Especially when, logically, you know it

HeardinLondon
Apr 2, 2023


Why we don't set boundaries
The more we are able to untangle our needs from other people's reactions, the easier it becomes to get really honest with ourselves about

HeardinLondon
Apr 1, 2023


Performance Anxiety
That person cannot give you that emotion because our emotions come from our thoughts. You are the only person who can grant you the freedom

HeardinLondon
Mar 31, 2023


This is Aly
Welcoming all parts of yourself is always a brave step into authenticity.

HeardinLondon
Mar 25, 2023


Do you believe that confidence is just something that some people have and some people* don't have?
Do you believe that confidence is just something that some people have and some people don't have? And you don't have it?

HeardinLondon
Mar 24, 2023


What is wrong with you?
Unconditional acceptance sounds like a radical idea which drips with fear of forbidden things like laziness and indulgence. But rather than

HeardinLondon
Mar 23, 2023


What failing at maths taught me about life
Maths is a perfect example. I used to be terrified of numbers. Sometimes the pressure of absolute right or wrong clashed with the idea that

HeardinLondon
Mar 22, 2023


How to stop telling yourself you are not good enough
A good way to begin is to become aware of your self-talk. Stop and pay attention to the words which run through your mind on a daily basis.

HeardinLondon
Mar 21, 2023


This is Carmella
Melly came to the studio wanting to capture an image for freedom.
Many dance moves and giggling later, I feel like we captured the mood of

HeardinLondon
Mar 20, 2023


The fabulous pettiness of ChatGTP
For dyslexics like myself, capitalism can be a harsh and unforgiving environment in a world of constant contact and churn. There's so much

HeardinLondon
Mar 19, 2023


Confidence vs Arrogance
Confidence is a belief in your capacity and abilities, and arrogance determines your worth by thinking you're better than others. Confidence

HeardinLondon
Mar 18, 2023


What does confidence look like for you?
It's hard to build confidence for ourselves when we don't have a set definition of what that means.

HeardinLondon
Mar 17, 2023


This is Senait
Senait and I spent a lot of time talking about the importance of travelling and learning from other cultures.
It was such a joy to bring

HeardinLondon
Mar 16, 2023


What does emotional safety look like for you?
Most of life is not happy and peaceful. Most of my life is a complicated mix of feelings and often a lot of things simultaneously, and some

HeardinLondon
Mar 14, 2023


This is a Portrait of Madeline
Madeline is an extraordinary individual with an incredible ability to connect with others on a deep and meaningful level. I have always been

HeardinLondon
Mar 13, 2023


Have you been tricked or trapped?
Many of us have been socialised to make ourselves as small as possible so we're not an inconvenience. How many of us have been taught that

HeardinLondon
Mar 12, 2023


How to build confidence, one cup of tea at a time
Where do you feel you need to perform perfectionism to give you confidence?
It can feel like a tantalising lure, can’t it?

HeardinLondon
Mar 11, 2023


A line in the sand
Have you created any New Year's resolutions that you were hoping to make a start on that you hadn't gotten around to yet? Or life took over

HeardinLondon
Mar 10, 2023


Why body image is probably not your problem
It took a lot of work on my body image, confidence, and past to acknowledge that I was trying to manipulate my body to stop predators.

HeardinLondon
Mar 9, 2023
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