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I Just Can’t Let It Go
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 121 This week I'm going to be talking about that phrase I think quite a lot of us use when we're...

HeardinLondon
Mar 21, 2025


Who Do You Want to be in a Relationship?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 119 One of the most common life lessons that I need to learn again and again and again, I seem to...

HeardinLondon
Mar 7, 2025


Transactional Friendships and Unconventional Love
What people need to do to be lovable? What do other people need to fulfil for you to make you love them?

HeardinLondon
Feb 28, 2025


Am I fatphobic?
how many times in a group photograph you hide behind somebody else because in your own words, "you're feeling 'a bit fat'". How many times

HeardinLondon
Feb 21, 2025


Relationships are not a thing
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 116 Relationships are not a thing. When I say they're not a thing, it doesn't mean that I don't...

HeardinLondon
Feb 14, 2025


What If I Regret It?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 115 Often we can make decisions in this fast-paced modern world that all hang on the thought of...

HeardinLondon
Feb 7, 2025


Everyone else has it sorted
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 113 It can be really easy to compare ourselves to other people, can't it? Even though we know...

HeardinLondon
Jan 31, 2025


How to Stop The Overwhelm Spiral
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 113 Overwhelm is not a thing. And what I mean by that is, it's not a puddle that you can step...

HeardinLondon
Jan 24, 2025


How to be Less Judgemental
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 105 One of the things that we hear quite a lot in popular pop psychology these days is to tell...

HeardinLondon
Jan 17, 2025


It doesn't get better
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 112 I've been thinking a lot lately about how many people I hear talking about how things have been...

HeardinLondon
Jan 17, 2025


Desire, desirability and socialisation
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 110 As a photographer and as a coach, I spend quite a lot of time talking to people about...

HeardinLondon
Jan 3, 2025


How Deep is Your Socialisation
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 Sometimes when you do this work, even when you're trained in this work, there are moments where...

HeardinLondon
Dec 27, 2024


Shall we do it all again?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 109 A friend of mine died yesterday morning, and I've been facing a lot of changes in my personal...

HeardinLondon
Dec 20, 2024


I don't want to feel this way
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 107 Something that I hear quite a lot in coaching circles. And the way that I was trained in this...

HeardinLondon
Dec 13, 2024


They shouldn’t be doing that (and how to get your power back)
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 106 When I first started coaching, one of the first bits of information that broke my brain that I...

HeardinLondon
Dec 6, 2024


How much to tell people
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 104 I think most of us have faced a situation where we're going through something or other and we...

HeardinLondon
Nov 22, 2024


Failure is a stepping stone
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 103 I think most of us would comfortably try and avoid failure at all costs. It's a very normal,...

HeardinLondon
Nov 15, 2024


Guilty Pleasures
Spam Filter For Your Brain- Episode 102 I'm not a fan of the phrase guilty pleasures, and you might be unsurprised to learn that, or it...

HeardinLondon
Nov 8, 2024


Conflict Resolution and Radical Curiosity
When I get lost in other people's stories, I try to control how other people interact with me rather than how I respond to them. As soon as I can get back into that place of working out how I respond to them, I can feel like I have some direction over my own life, my own responses, and my own story.

HeardinLondon
Nov 1, 2024


Why we do what we do
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 100 So wildly for me: this is episode 100 of the podcast, which is hilarious considering how...

HeardinLondon
Oct 25, 2024
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