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Escaping the Urgency Trap: Making Decisions Without Panic
Uncertainty feels a lot like danger to our brains. And we want to get out of there as soon as possible. And it's very instinctual to try and move away from this in any which way that we can. So, we think that if we just make the right choice, we'll be able to stop feeling rubbish. But often, the problem is that we're also telling ourselves that if we don't make the right choice, everything will go horribly wrong.

HeardinLondon
6 days ago


Body Kindness: The Freedom and Power of Letting Go of Body Self-Criticism
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 149 I know I keep banging on about body image to you in these podcasts, and there's a reason for...

HeardinLondon
Sep 25


From Avoidance to Acceptance: How to Turn Negative Feelings Into Positive Outcomes
This week's podcast is here to try and show you how you can move through them a little bit more quickly and try and make some use out of them, rather than just being something really awful that we have to have to endure as humans. This podcast is about how to turn negative emotions into positive outcomes.

HeardinLondon
Sep 18


Other People Hate it When You Set Boundaries
When we're on our own personal journey of growth and transforming ourselves from endless people pleasers, we can sometimes find that other people are not quite as on board with our healing and personal generosity as we might like them to be. And sometimes it's going to hit a little bit hard. And this episode is about navigating your relationship with other people whilst prioritising your own personal growth and your own personal choices.

HeardinLondon
Sep 11


Letting Go of Certainty: The Art of Making Confident Decisions
Most of us think about the idea of certainty as this idea that when we have a whole load of things in front of us or we have a really big decision that we need to make, we're going to know what the right thing to do is because it's going to feel right. And that is us putting the idea of our feeling of certainty or our feeling of confidence to be on an external circumstance, which is us making the right decision, and that decision making us feel good.

HeardinLondon
Sep 4


Four Powerful Questions to Transform How You Feel About Your Body
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 145 Most of us have narratives about our bodies that we've been telling ourselves for our whole...

HeardinLondon
Aug 28


Losing Weight Won’t Magically Fix How You Feel About Yourself
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 143 There's a sly little sneaky thought that I think most of us fall into the trap of, even if it...

HeardinLondon
Aug 21


The One Core Thought Fueling Your Stress and How to Shift It
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 143 One of the things that I noticed when I started getting into thoughtwork was I was worried to...

HeardinLondon
Aug 14


Why “Just Be Kind to Yourself!” means nothing
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 142 One of those sound bites that I think we all hear quite often is "just be kind to yourself. Just...

HeardinLondon
Aug 7


Showing Up for Yourself
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 141 A little question to ponder on this week. How different would your life be if you were not...

HeardinLondon
Jul 31


Stop People Pleasing: The Art of Boundaries and Balance
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 140 This one's for the people pleasers, the people who think that giving it all away secretly makes...

HeardinLondon
Jul 24


Handling Other People’s Expectations Without Losing Yourself
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 138 I've been thinking a lot about doing things for other people, and how often so many of us do...

HeardinLondon
Jul 17


I need them to love me
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 137 What happens when you think that you need someone else to give you something? Primarily, what...

HeardinLondon
Jul 10


Train Your Brain to Feel Better
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 136 This week I wanted to talk a little bit about why affirmations don't work and teach you...

HeardinLondon
Jul 3


Break Your Repeating Patterns
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 135 This week's podcast is a really simple little hack as to work out what's going on with you....

HeardinLondon
Jun 26


When Pleasing Others Means Betraying Yourself
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 134 How many times have you been worried about saying no because you're worried about what other...

HeardinLondon
Jun 19


The Hidden Costs of Always Putting Others First
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 133 This week's podcast is a little reminder of something that I'm sure you know, but I bet you've...

HeardinLondon
Jun 12


Ghosting, Growth and Gratitude
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 132 I wanted to speak a little bit this week about the painful situation that most of us have...

HeardinLondon
Jun 5


The Wisdom Hidden in Your Anger
I don't know many people who enjoy being angry. And yet it's a perfectly human emotion that most of us feel at some point or other. And...

HeardinLondon
May 29


Am I fatphobic?
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 130 So this week we're going personal. For anyone who's been around these parts for a while, you'll...

HeardinLondon
May 22
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